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Behind Closed Doors

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

Behind Closed Doors

Behind closed doors you never know

The “private” lives that friends don’t show

It happens in the best of places

And shows up first on children’s faces

First, the look of their sad eyes

Then their voice complete with sighs

They don’t talk much nor do they play

You ask them why, but they won’t say

 

Their bear the weight of parents’ sin

Of daily abuse and anger turned in

They have that look that says, Dont Touch

I’ve had enough, in fact too much

They fight with all to show their power

But while at home they sit and cower

To wait upon their nightly whip

Sometimes from hands, sometimes from lips

It matters not where comes the pain

From stinging slaps or words that shame

‘Cause as they grow in size and age

Their minds still fill with thoughts of rage

And when they wed and parents are

They still bear wounds and have deep scars

That bind them in so many ways

To their past lives which they replay

And on and on the cycle goes

Unless it stops and we can show

That “private” lives in “private” places

Ruin future lives in future spaces

So be not silent, don’t turn in fear

Reach for their hand, give them your ear

With gifts of love, touch their young heart

And the cycle of hate, you’ll surely part

(C) JayGee01

Shattered Love, Broken Lives . . . Domestic Violence and Abuse

Wednesday, May 23rd, 2007

Decades and decades of research reveals that batters do not quit over time. Whether alcohol and drug abuse is a factor or not, domestic violence and abuse is a very serious problem . . . for both the victims and the abusers. There is some link between alcohol/drug abuse and domestic violence.

A recent study by the University of Massachusetts revealed that the vast majority of the abusers also engaged in other behaviors that resulted in multiple arrests over the decade for non-domestic violence crimes. While 60% were returned to court for abuse, 71% were rearrested for any crime.

Marriage was associated with reduced likelihood of new arrests for non-abuse crimes, but not new abuse. This suggests that marriage, at least for victims of intimate partner violence, is not “the safest place to be.”

The National Council’s Family Violence Department Web site contains copies of all state domestic violence laws. It can be found at http://www.ncifci.org/dept/fvd.


 

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